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Friday, August 11, 2006

DO U LOVE YOUR HUSBAND MORE OR YOUR KIDS

In kuwait when you get married it's tradition that u have to go visit your husband's famliy weekly well my husband famliy weekly visit is on thursday for lunch so this week they had one of thier realtives were visiting and it was my first time to see her so she was a very nice women and it was nice knowning her but after lunch all of us were sitting to drink tea and have some sweet (and they want us to be thin and they always let us eat eat eat :) ) she came and sat next to me and my baby azoooozy basha was playing in fornt of me and she told me tehbeeenah (do u love him) i told her ammmmmmoooooot feeeh (am dying for him) then she ask me a question
LADY: DO U LOVE HIM MORE OR YOUR HUSBAND
ME : LAAA MY HUSBAND
LADY:SHELOOOOOON (HOW)
ME : IF I DID NOT LOVE MY HUSBAND I WOULD NOT HAVE THIS BABY AND I WILL NOT LOVE HIM
LADY:BASS MEN MAY CHEAT ON U OR GET MARRIED TO ANTHER WOMEN AND U WILL LIVE ALONE WITH UR KIDS
ME: WHY WILL I THINK THE WAY THAT UR THINKING THEN I WILL NEVER LOVE ANYONE IN MY WHOLE LIFE AND BY THE MY BABY ONE DAY WILL BE A MAN AND HE WILL GET MARRIED TOOOO AND HE WILL HAVE HIS OWN LIFE SO IF I THINK THEY UR THINKING I WILL NEVER LOVE MY HUSBAND AND REALLY HE WILL SEE SOMEONE ELSE
LADY: ARE U CRAZY
ME :LAAA (NO)
LADY:FIRST TIME I HAER THIS REAPLY
ME : COZ I LOVE HIM AND AM HAPPY WITH HIM
LADY:ALLLAH YAFGICH INSHALLLAH
ME :THANK YOU
LADY : BASSSSS??????
before she ended her bass my husband cousin came and told her bass stop asking questions she loves her husband and she is happy with him soo don't change her mind plz but she was saying this in a joking way.
is it strange or wrong to love her husband more than your kids

4 Comments:

  • At 11:33 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I know the mentality: don't trust anyone, anybody can cheat on you, put yourself first, nobody deserves that much of trust and love but yourself, and the list goes on and on and on . . .

    Simply put: ماعندها سالفة

    And May Allah bless you, your husband, and your little Azoozey ;)

     
  • At 12:53 AM, Blogger LadyBug said…

    if i were u i would answer her :"o entay shako?!"
    but seriously i asked myself the same Q ! my answer was "i love both o them" i love each one in a different way ! it's hard to say that i love my husband more or my kid .. i can't imagin my life without both of'em,
    if i answered with "i love my husband more" i will feel guilty cuz my baby has no one but me in this life! so i should love him more than anything in the world
    and if my answer was " i love my kid more" it can't be true cuz i can have 10 more kids but only one loving husband !
    u can't compare salt and sugar ;)

     
  • At 7:23 AM, Blogger Delicately Realistic said…

    Actually...yes its kinda strange...most kuwaiti ladies would say their children....personally :P lol chiny ana mitzawja 3elashan i form opinions....but it makes sense to me more to love my husband more.

    Bs il9era7a wayid qawiya 3ela her question, its the first time meet!

     
  • At 8:02 AM, Blogger dishevelled said…

    Some girls in uni were discussing this topic somewhat and almost all of them replied with saying, as long as I have my kids, I don't care much about my husband! Imagine that!

    So sad to think marriage is only about having children to make your life more "busy" or meaningful, and not enjoying having a life partner.

     

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